10 Things you should know before falling in love.

I’m not a love expert, I don’t claim to be one, But what i’m going to share to you is base on reality. Some people tend to fall in love in just a blink of an eye, But i don’t consider that as love, It just a physical attraction, Love is something will just come normally, Its unexplainable feeling of need for that someone, Its something you feel inside that you don’t even know why? Falling in love is endless happiness indeed,But make sure its for a lifetime.Make sure you have meet someone that will share with you a wonderful memories together, They say Love through thick and thin, In sickness and in health, for better or for worse, When you are in love, You feel like you are in a magical world. But remember love is not a fairytale, Its not a bed of roses.Love works when two person share the same feelings together.

So before putting your shoes in that fantasy maybe try to consider few things below.





10 Things you should know before falling in love.

1. Let the love find you: Well, i’m not saying just sat there waiting for love. Thats not my point, For me is not about finding it, It will just come normally,How do you really know where to look?Well we don’t need to be desperate, When we become so desperate on finding love we tend to fall in the wrong person in the end you just going to be hurt. Love is a gift, Sometimes you might be attractive to that person but that is not love, Its not necessarily that he will be the one you should share your life with just because you like his body, The hair, The face and he is so cute, Relationship that only base on attraction will surely won’t last.So for me we were not finding love, We are given one, Its a gift that you deserve and treasure all your life.

2.Attraction : Okay earlier I said, Love shouldn’t be base on attraction alone but everything inside itself.But you shouldn’t love someone just because he is good to you,Because he is very nice to you Because he can give you what you want, You should love someone because you are also attractive to him and of course he has everything what you wanted for a partner for life.

3.Loving yourself: There is a saying how can you love someone if you don’t love yourself which is exactly true. Meaning if you love yourself, You can share the best of you of that someone you love, I don’t consider it as selfish but for me its very important as you given your self importance so you can share it to the person you going to give your life with.If you dont love yourself, There is a chance that what you feel for that person is a need of self validation, Until you love yourself you will be able to feel true for someone else.So when you love yourself everything else make sense.

4.Know Between Love and Infatuation: This is what im talking about earlier, Some people say I love him, but without knowing it wasn’t love really, Thats what we call infatuation.Infatuation won’t last long, and if you fall for this it will surely leave a scar in your heart.

5.Can you Trust your partner: It doesn’t mean you try become spy , But certain things will let you know if your partner is really trustworthy, If he really deserve with love and trust for him. One mistake can be considered, but if it happen twice or more with the same issue that is not mistake anymore.Trust is really vital in relationship its important to know that you both have trust and faith with each other, You have share the same strong sense of loyalty, If you feel doubtful from the beginning better think before doing a commitment.

6. Be His/ Her best friend: Its not only just love but be his/her best friend as well. When He/She become your best friend you most likely open with each other, and enjoy every moment of your company.

7. Know how to respect your partner: having respect with each other is very important, If you respect your partner, You tend to acknowledge his/her plan for life.Respect your partners space,Every Relationship needs space between their partner sometimes. It is within this space that you find energy, passion, eroticism, quiet time, and personal fulfillment.

8. Know the Importance between Love and Sex: Some people say, Love is an easy way to have sex, but honestly falling in love is about strong bond and emotions,Though Sex is a part of relationship but know the love is not just about sex.Its about sharing the same feelings and emotions. If you love someone truly making love is a magical feeling of giving all yourself for that person.

9.Love is Caring: No matter how you hate him/her for what your partner did to you that its not pleasing for you, but if you care for that person it wont affect so much of your relationship, In relationship there will be lots of Misunderstanding but to care for that person is really something very important in love. For me love is caring for someone more than yourself.

10. Love is not a bed of Roses: Again let me tell you the pain is a part of love, But it easier if you share your pain with the person who will understand you and not to judge you.So when you are in relationship be prepare to face so much pain, But don’t let the pain defeat you yet let the pain inspire you and mold you to become a better person your partner.



So thats my point of view.

Note: This is all just base on my thought, But to be in Relationship its all up to you how you work on it.

Thanks for reading.

Have you ever wondered the Existence of God.?

First of all let me ask you have you ever wondered the existence of God?, I grown up in a very conservative and religious family, We have to pray every morning when we woke up, Pray when we eat breakfast,Pray before going to our farm, pray before going to School, pray before eating lunch,and pray before eating dinner, everywhere we go we has to pray so the guardian angel will be with us all the time, and we always go to church every Sunday,I can’t remember that we ever missed one sunday, thats how we brought up with our very devoted mother, She is a church choir leader and a worship leader as well, when i was a kid, My Dad play guitar while I sing for the congregation.My father was different he is not very religious and he go out with friends sometimes and drink. He go to church with us but just for the sake on going with my mother i guess. But my father is a very hardworking Dad, but very disciplinarian, So we have to be a good kid otherwise you will have a taste on my father’s really thick belt.My mother on the other hand is different she is very sensitive woman who could not even raise her hand to his kid’s. We are seven Siblings but they brought us up with morals and dignity. But even so we are poor we are always reminded by our parents that the riches is not about materials alone but its about being a good follower of God.

Now let me ask you again? have you ever wondered the existence of God, Does God really do exist? Is there really God up there in the Universe? Some people say, You can’t prove that their is God,But also we can’t prove that God doesn’t exist?This question has been on my mind as a grow up, during those tough times we had, My Dad was really sick, and my Mum was sick as well, We really have nothing, We couldnt eat, And I was only 8 or 9 years old at that time. My father almost died at the time. In that age i was so devastated looking at my parents suffers.I started to pray asking God, why? I pray and pray and pray, But nothing happen, We start asking for food in our neighbors just to survive, That was during El-Nino our farm couldn’t produces foods due to the hit We have no rain for months,All our crops died, Until such time i told my mum, I don’t think there is God ” Ma” God doesn’t exist, you just fooling yourself for ages, We serve him all our life, yet he could not help us during this time. If he is so powerful why can’t he heal you both. My mum said he is just testing us my son, how strong our faith for him. I told my mum since you are a kid you are already serving God so that is not enough to prove your strong faith on him? My mum said, we are human, we make mistake, We sinned, we are not perfect,And Satan is always ready to attack us. God didn’t give us this illness satan does, and God will always test how strong we are,God won’t give us trials we can’t overcome, So now you better kneel and pray, keep your faith up high my son, Me and your father will be fine, Okay? I couldn’t say anything i just cried. As i grow up we have so many challenges and trials we’ve encountered but none of them we haven’t overcome.There was those time that we lost our home, we lost everything, Its another trials that test our faith from God, We started from the scratch again, yet we always overcome all those test.

We question ourselves that is there really God? But if we try to open our eyes around us, That is enough evidence that there is God, The Sun that give us light, The grass, The fruits and plants the provide us food, The animals, The mountains and the water, That should be enough evidence the existence of God,So if are still doubtful try considering this,Living things are evidence that God exists.Everything in this planet didn’t happen by accident, They happen with a reason, They happen by creation,Try to think of it, For example all those attraction we’ve seen somebody created them. The Pyramid of Egypt, The great wall of China, The Taj mahal, They are being designed and being made, So How does Planets, Stars, Oceans, Trees, Mountains, Animals, of most of all human being made? You couldn’t say they are just happen by accident, There must be powerful being who made them.They are being plan, They are being designed according to its purpose,So Believing God is really hard but it takes strong faith to do so.But Its even harder not to believed that God doesn’t exist.There must be powerful being who designed for all the living things.

Read the passage of Psalm 19:1 ”The heavens declare the glory of God, The Skies proclaim the work of his hands” Genesis 1:1 ” In the Beginning, God created the heaven and the earth.. Isaiah 44:24” I am the Lord who makes all things, Who stretches out the heavens all alone.Who spreads abroad the earth by Myself .The Humanity itself , The Human existence is the fulfillments of God existence.

How to overcome the hardship & pain in life?

Pain is a part of a living, We fall, we stumble, it drains us, It makes us feel useless, It makes us so depressed, and eventually it will turn our life upside down.But at the end of the day all those heartache and pain it either make us a better person or make us worse, but all i can say whatever makes you feel better keep on going, But don’t turn your life into become a bad person instead use those heartache and pain for you to become a better person, use it to mold you, use it to inspire you.

This article is for all of those people out there who are experiencing. heartbreak, loneliness,disappointment, and or loss. and i hope you learn something from it, We all are in this road together, We will help each other to overcome all of those, I am not an expert but i certainly knew what life is all about. What pain is all about, When you are in that kind of situation, You felt like you trap into something unbreakable,Something that is hard to overcome, it will always test how strong you are, and how tough you become.

I grew up in the farm, I come from a simple, Loving family, both my parents are hard working and raise 7 Children, It wasn’t easy for them for sure,But all of us has being taught from our parents to become person with moral and dignity,We all make mistake, But we always learn from it.

I grew in those little farm house, Watching the season change, Watching the river flow, Watching the birds passed by, looking after our water buffalo, Our cows and chicken. and of course our plants that provide us food.It was not fancy living yet we are contended and happy family.

But life is always trying to knock you down, We had a problem in our farm due to drought, We lost everything, and Unlucky enough our house got burn, We become homeless,We have nothing left,We started from the rags again. It was the toughest part of our life, I was 7 years old at that time i think. I remember those times that my Dad gone all day looking for food and what remains in our farming.But even-though all of his 7 kids had survive.Eventually Our Mum decided to left us and find a job in the big city so she can send us money to start over again. She work as a housemaid for 1500 pesos a month, But she did not mind that as long as she can send us money for us to survive, Ive seen my Dad was really heart broken from it,He is a very tough guy but one time i saw him crying alone while trying to feed his 7 kids alone. It took us years to get back on our feet again.and years for us to see our mother again as well, I go to school thinking what is happening, where is our mother, One day i ask my Dad when our we going to see mother, He said soon, But when is soon? I have younger brother’s like 6 years old, 3 years old and 2 years old.They needed a mother. And myself need a mother as well, But we don’t have any choice. 4 years had passed my mum finally return. It was the happiest moment of our life.She bought some toys for us,and I got one new shoes.But the sad thing is, Our youngest could not recognize my mum anymore, he doesn’t even go near with my mother, My mum left when he was just 1 year old.My mum was really heart broken, But thats the consequences for her leaving us, I myself understand why? but some of my sibling don’t, It was really tough for my mum how to become closed with her kids again.It so sad really? But she always tried to gain our closeness to her, Until we all become closed to our mother again, But life turns into something else, Those four years without our Mum, Our Dad find comforts drinking, Even though he look after us well, But Because he couldn’t sleep he turn himself into a very alcoholic person just to find comfort. Until he become drunkard and become abusive to our mother,He accusing our mother that having appear while she is working in the big city, But my mum always denied it and all she is doing is working just to provide food for her kids. It doesn’t stop there, It is my mum struggling to gain my father’s trust,My mum cried all the time, We started our own little store, But our father spend all his time drinking with his friend.Until he become so ill,and that the time he stop, Yet it was too late when he was diagnosed having kidney problem.Our mother look after our Dad and they become close again.Eventually when I started High School I left home, and find myself in the big city, I was 12 years old at the time, I started become a working student, It was so tough for a young boy who had never been in the city trying to fit in himself, But eventually i found a family who help me send to school as a working student,I manage to finish my high School, It was so tough without seeing my family, No Cellphone, No letters, No any means of communication at that time, I don’t have any idea what is happening back in our farm, And they also have no idea where i am and what am i doing, If i am in the goods hands,They all against from me leaving, Yet I was so determined to leave to find my future, My mum said why cant i just stay, ad help our Dad, I told her.” I couldn’t see my tomorrow from there” I needed to leave and find my tomorrow’s. I know its a gamble. Yet I did it, I pack up all my things and started walking. I wasn’t scared at all, Infact i was so excited.to make my story short, So yes I did it, I finish my High School, and eventually finish my college through hard work and determination.

All those pain become a part of my history, A part of my life, those pain becomes the Inspiration for me. They make me a person I am right now. Below is the guide on how to become strong? and eventually overcome the hardship and pain.

1. Always believe that you are stronger than what you think: You may say I couldn’t do it, I am not strong enough but I know you can, You are being designed to be one. Just believe in yourself.

2. Dont you ever ever give up: No matter how hard life is, Dont give up, believed on the saying, There is always light at the end of the tunnel,So keep on hoping, and keep on going at the end of the day everything is paid off.

3. Dont lose hope: Hope is what I only had, Hope that someday things will get better, When you have no hope, you have no reason to keep on going.

4. Be always inspired and find inspiration: My family is my inspiration, They will always be.and im always inspired by the people around me, The people who taught me.

5, Strong faith and trust God’s guidance: All those hardship in life I always find a way to kneel and pray. This will always help you and evetually make you feel better, Just always remember you are not alone. God is watching over you.There are no easy answers, no formulas. Everyone has to work it out for themselves. Dealing with suffering can be extremely difficult, but with God’s help, it is possible.

6, Always believe in yourself that you are not alone: Keep this on your mind that you are not all alone, You are not invisible. It easy to say that world is closing in, The world is stumble upon yours shoulder,but always remember someone out there loving you.

7 Keep on moving forward: Always keep your head up, Always keep on moving forward, Keep on saying you can, And you will.

8, Trust and love yourself: Always trust yourself, You are better person, you are special,You are different and unique, You are one of a kind, you are one in a million, you are loved.



Thank you so much for reading, Like I said im not an expert but this is all base on my personal experience and this what helps me to be a better person.I am not perfect and i dont claim to be one, but i am a human like you, We all encountered pain and hardship in life, But If i can overcome it, You can overcome it as well.

Please comment below how you fight to overcome hardship in life and be an inspiration.I need help, as much as I can get.



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Superstitions that my parents taught me.

My father was pagan before, he believe things that so unbelievable and some superstitions that i find outrageous. My father still believe some superstitions until this time though but not as what he used to be when we are a kid. Here is the list.

1. Don’t laugh or show your teeth when is having thunder and lightning cos if you do laugh and show your teeth? you’ll be struck by lightning.. One time it was raining so heavy there is lightning as well, As a kid we are playing inside the house, and laughing, Our Dad saw us. He grab each of us and cut bits of our hair in order to stop the lightning from striking us.

2. Don’t sweep your floor going towards the front door, You must sweep it going towards the backward cos the good fortune will be swept away.

3.Be prepared when a black butterfly come in inside your house cos one relatives or member of your family has passed away and that is her spirit visiting you.Which i find it unreal i’ve seen many times but nothing has happen really.On the other hand if you see white butterfly you must celebrate cos the wealth is coming.

4. Dont eat in two plate because you will become unfaithful to your future partner.

5. Don’t sleep when your hair still wet cos you will be or crazy blind.I did it lots of times I still can see lol

6.Jump as high as you can during new years day so youll grow taller

7.If you have sore eyes, Don’t worry just save your urine as early in the morning and wash it to your eyes you’ll be health right away.. ( I dont think so mine wasnt lol)

8. If you take picture, Dont take group yourself into three, As one of you will die.( Scary isnt )

9. If you are pregnant and you wanted twin babies, Just find twin bananas, and you’ll give birth twin babies.

10. A single man or woman who always sing when he/she cook will get marry a widower. Although its okay to sing in the shower though. :)

11. If you bite your tongue it means somebody is talking about you. Somebody is backbiting you.and some also believe somebody is thinking on you. So a friend of yours must say any number, And find that number correspond to aphabital. If its 1, means its A and the person who is thinking of you his name begins with letter A.

12. Don’t comb your hair during the night cos your parents will die soon if you do. I was combing my hair one time and i was hit my father right away, and I ask him why he did it. He said to me. Do you want us to die soon? I couldn’t believe what i heard.

13. If you eat pancit/ noodles during your birthday you will have a long life.

14.If you get lost somewhere, Don’t worry just invert your shirts and you’ll find your own way back.

I still have a lot more but couldn’t remember some of them anymore. Thats only i can remember at the moment. So feel free to comment below your superstitions you’ve learned as you grow up. Thank you.

How I dealt with my depression.

Depression is one of the serious problem in the world,It can damage your physical and emotional aspects,People with a depression is having a hard time to lived a life they deserves, They felt worthless, They felt not wanted by many, And they felt that they are all alone. According to medical research depression is a major clinical illness, Its a disorder that can cause a total sadness to any human being. it can affect the entire character of a person.So how do we understand and deal with depression? I myself had been suffering some mild depression that leads me not to be able sleep properly.And its not funny at all, You felt hopeless and worthless. Sometimes you have this bad thought of suicidal,Depression comes in any reason, major cause by depression is the feeling of failure.

Depression it can happen to anybody, Anyone of us, It started with anxiety and it got worse and leds into serious depression, Some people cause by losing love ones,Job’s, Financial problem and so on. People that are prone to depression are those people that having a hard time to cope with tough times. They are not weak but they are not strong enough I believe.

Here is the Sign and symptoms of depression:
A constant feeling of sadness, anxiety, and emptiness
A general feeling of pessimism sets in (the glass is always half empty)
The person feels hopeless
Individuals can feel restless
The sufferer may experience irritability
Patients may lose interest in activities or hobbies they once enjoyed
He/she may lose interest in sex
Levels of energy feel lower, fatigue sets in
Many people with a depressive illness find it hard to concentrate, remember details, and make decisions
Sleep patterns are disturbed – the person may sleep too little or too much
Eating habits may change – he/she may either eat too much or have no appetite
Suicidal thoughts may occur – some may act on those thoughts
The sufferer may complain more of aches and pains, Headaches cramps, or digestive problems. These problems do not get better with treatment.

Here are some ways to fight depression without undergoing medical drugs.

Be positive: Have a positive thought, Try to be positive, I know you felt like the world is full ug nega but dude, lots of positive for you to be thankful for.

Be happy: I know its easy said than done, But try to do so,people suffer from depression they forgot to smile, They forgot to be happy.When you try to think positive things your blood flow can alter to your brain, so whatever you think about can get things worse or it could be in total different way.Lots of things to smile and to be happy about.

Cry : Some people choose not to cry they put all the griefs inside, They forgot to weep. When you feel something so hard to cope, Cry it out, let it out, Shout it out. and after that you feel better. Im different myself I cry and let all my griefs out but alone and in a silent way. But after i cry it always feel better.

Go outside more: I admit i am homebody person, Or maybe Id rather be home. But you dont have to be in the crowd, You don’t need to see people. All you need to do is to go out and appreciate the Lord’s creation, The nature, The birds, The flowers, The trees and all the good things in our surroundings. It surely help how to dealt depression.

Exercise: Working out is one of the best way to deal depression, It will strengthen not only your physical but your thought as well.It will help increase your mood. and develop positive perspective.You don’t need a hard workout, Just go out and walk once in a while. let yourself sweats, Do some outdoor works. make yourself busy.

Meditate: I consider meditation could help to treat depression, Meditation could help your brain work normally or properly. It will create positive outlook.When you meditate, You try to empty your mind for all the negative thoughts and you are trying to replace it with all the positive things in your mind.

Diet: I consider dieting as well can help treat depression especially if you are suffering from obesity.Proper diet and good eating habits can help you for sure.



Note: I am not medical expert nor had been practicing, All what is written in here is base on my ideas and some are base on my own experiences. And I felt like it has been very effective. But at the end of the day it is all up to you how you manage yourself.

Baliw na pag Ibig.

Isa nga itong kabaliwan?, Oh ako'y isang tao lamang na may damdamin, ang pagmamahal ay isang bahagi nang buhay sa isang tao, dito tayo nabuo, at dito rin tayo nasaktan. Pero isa itong salamin sa buhay na siyang gabay sa araw araw nating paglakbay sa mundong ibabaw, Kung wala kang pagmamahal isa kang tulad nang isang dahon nang puno na nalaglag sa ilog at sumasabay lamang sa agos nito na walang sariling direction.

Ngayon isalaysay ko ang aking mismong karanasan na siyang naging dahilan sa pagiging ako ngayon, Isa itong naging inspiration ko upang pagbuhitin lalo ang aking sarili at pamumuhay,Ni minsan di ko naisip na ako rin ay magiging biktima nitong sinasabi nilang ''PAG-IBIG'' Noon isa lamang ang focus ko sa buhay, Ang maka ahon sa hirap at matulongan ang aking pamilya, Isang mahirap na buhay ang aking nakagisnan, Kaya't namulat ako sa isang simpleng pamumuhay lamang subalit kontento kami kung ano ang meron,Pero iba ako, Ako'y isang taong mapangarap, Marami akung pangarap na gustong abutin, Matayog man ito ngunit ako'y may lakas na loob at determinasyon upang ito'y abutin, Subalit dahil sa kahirapan nang buhay. kahit anong pagsisikap di ko pa rin ma ikalila na ako'y nahihirapan at minsan di ko nakakayanan. Pero ni minsan wala sa isip ko ang magmahal.

Ngunit sa isang pagkakataon akoy namulat na lamang na ako palay napaibig sa isang taong ni minsan alam ko sa aking sarili ito'y isang impossible, Alam ko na kahit anong mangyayari di maging kami, Sa simula akala koy isa lamang itong bugso nang damdamin na hindi kailan may magiging makatotohanan, ngunit di maiwasan na ako'y tao lamang na may damdamin at nagmamahal, Simulat sapol ayoko ngunit sa kasamaang palad ito'y nangyari na di inaasahan, totoo nga na ang pagmamahal ay di mo kailan may maiiwasan,

Sa Simulat sapol pinaramdam niya sa akin na ako'y importanting tao sa buhay niya, ngunit hanggang doon lamang ito, Binigay ko buong buhay   sa kanya ngunit sa kasamaang palad ito'y walang silbi, Ako'y nag bulag bulagan sa katotohanan na ako'y isang takbuhan lamang kung siya'y may pangangailangan,Baliw nga ba ako? Oh siguro tanga lang, Abay Ewan. basta alam ko, Di ko kayang mawala siya sa akin, Kahit masakit na balang araw alam kung kami magkalayo din. Masakit Isipin na pag ikaw iibig kailagan mong maging matatag at matapang dahil minsan ang pag ibig ay hindi maging panig sayo.

Alam ko sa aking sarili matutunan ko rin siyang kalimutan kayat pinili kung makapag layo layo upang sa ganun tuluyan maghilom ang sakit na dulot nang kanyang pagiging manhid sa akin. iiwanan ko na nga ba siya nang tuluyan? kaya ko kaya ito?. siguro naman kaya ko, bat di ko susubukan. Alam ko habang buhay siyang nakatanim sa aking damdamin at ala ala. Pero alam kung darating din ang araw na ito'y tuluyang maghilom at magiging isang masayang ala ala ko na lamang ang taong aking Minahal na di naman niya akung pweding mahalin.

Salamat sa inyong pag uunawa.

Written by: Elvi

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