10 Things you should know before falling in love.

I’m not a love expert, I don’t claim to be one, But what i’m going to share to you is base on reality. Some people tend to fall in love in just a blink of an eye, But i don’t consider that as love, It just a physical attraction, Love is something will just come normally, Its unexplainable feeling of need for that someone, Its something you feel inside that you don’t even know why? Falling in love is endless happiness indeed,But make sure its for a lifetime.Make sure you have meet someone that will share with you a wonderful memories together, They say Love through thick and thin, In sickness and in health, for better or for worse, When you are in love, You feel like you are in a magical world. But remember love is not a fairytale, Its not a bed of roses.Love works when two person share the same feelings together.

So before putting your shoes in that fantasy maybe try to consider few things below.





10 Things you should know before falling in love.

1. Let the love find you: Well, i’m not saying just sat there waiting for love. Thats not my point, For me is not about finding it, It will just come normally,How do you really know where to look?Well we don’t need to be desperate, When we become so desperate on finding love we tend to fall in the wrong person in the end you just going to be hurt. Love is a gift, Sometimes you might be attractive to that person but that is not love, Its not necessarily that he will be the one you should share your life with just because you like his body, The hair, The face and he is so cute, Relationship that only base on attraction will surely won’t last.So for me we were not finding love, We are given one, Its a gift that you deserve and treasure all your life.

2.Attraction : Okay earlier I said, Love shouldn’t be base on attraction alone but everything inside itself.But you shouldn’t love someone just because he is good to you,Because he is very nice to you Because he can give you what you want, You should love someone because you are also attractive to him and of course he has everything what you wanted for a partner for life.

3.Loving yourself: There is a saying how can you love someone if you don’t love yourself which is exactly true. Meaning if you love yourself, You can share the best of you of that someone you love, I don’t consider it as selfish but for me its very important as you given your self importance so you can share it to the person you going to give your life with.If you dont love yourself, There is a chance that what you feel for that person is a need of self validation, Until you love yourself you will be able to feel true for someone else.So when you love yourself everything else make sense.

4.Know Between Love and Infatuation: This is what im talking about earlier, Some people say I love him, but without knowing it wasn’t love really, Thats what we call infatuation.Infatuation won’t last long, and if you fall for this it will surely leave a scar in your heart.

5.Can you Trust your partner: It doesn’t mean you try become spy , But certain things will let you know if your partner is really trustworthy, If he really deserve with love and trust for him. One mistake can be considered, but if it happen twice or more with the same issue that is not mistake anymore.Trust is really vital in relationship its important to know that you both have trust and faith with each other, You have share the same strong sense of loyalty, If you feel doubtful from the beginning better think before doing a commitment.

6. Be His/ Her best friend: Its not only just love but be his/her best friend as well. When He/She become your best friend you most likely open with each other, and enjoy every moment of your company.

7. Know how to respect your partner: having respect with each other is very important, If you respect your partner, You tend to acknowledge his/her plan for life.Respect your partners space,Every Relationship needs space between their partner sometimes. It is within this space that you find energy, passion, eroticism, quiet time, and personal fulfillment.

8. Know the Importance between Love and Sex: Some people say, Love is an easy way to have sex, but honestly falling in love is about strong bond and emotions,Though Sex is a part of relationship but know the love is not just about sex.Its about sharing the same feelings and emotions. If you love someone truly making love is a magical feeling of giving all yourself for that person.

9.Love is Caring: No matter how you hate him/her for what your partner did to you that its not pleasing for you, but if you care for that person it wont affect so much of your relationship, In relationship there will be lots of Misunderstanding but to care for that person is really something very important in love. For me love is caring for someone more than yourself.

10. Love is not a bed of Roses: Again let me tell you the pain is a part of love, But it easier if you share your pain with the person who will understand you and not to judge you.So when you are in relationship be prepare to face so much pain, But don’t let the pain defeat you yet let the pain inspire you and mold you to become a better person your partner.



So thats my point of view.

Note: This is all just base on my thought, But to be in Relationship its all up to you how you work on it.

Thanks for reading.